About Ken
I began a pursuit of my true sexual identity in 1987 when my battle against homosexuality grew into intentions of suicide.
After years of failed attempts at freedom, I discovered some kingdom realities and encountered God in areas & ways that transformed me. The following years healed childhood trauma, replaced lies with truth, forged deep intimacy with God, and established self-love and masculine identity.
I didn’t fit in with the boys, as a child. They didn’t seem to like me, and neither did I. So from first grade, I began to live every day in a fantasy world of codependent fixation on whichever boy in my life I saw as the picture-perfect male. It was how I affirmed myself and coped with a life of hopelessness and self-hatred. My very first sexual desires were for other males. I had none for females. And my pain medication for 20 years was daily addiction to masturbation, which sometimes included stents of serious addiction to pornography. The shame of those sins and multiple inappropriate sexual encounters resulted in a suicidal season at age 17. I couldn’t fathom breaking free of my addictions or ever finding a woman sexually attractive, let alone becoming married to a woman, enjoying sex with her, and fathering four children…until a life in Christ became deeply experiential for me.
Now I hold a B.S. in Marketing/Finance; am a graduate of Bethel’s 3-year School of Supernatural Ministry; have been an associate pastor at Bethel Church (Redding, CA) since 2006; have regularly ministered in Bethel’s men’s purity ministry since 2010; teach in Bethel’s School of Supernatural Ministry; and am a co-founder of CHANGED Movement (changedmovement.com), a ministry helping people journey away from LGBTQ and deeper into Christ. I also consult with those who struggle with sexual brokenness and help them journey with God to find wholeness & freedom. My greatest joys are my beautiful wife and our four incredible children. God can do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can ask or imagine!
About Tiffany
I am a certified life coach, specializing in helping people discover and break free from our hidden motivations and live whole, free, and fulfilled lives.
My friends call me the Possiblitarian because I deeply believe that there’s always a solution. The possibilities are endless, and you’re never without hope. I bring this same enthusiasm into meetings with clients.
After years of coaching business owners, helping them build healthy teams and effective businesses, I discovered that one of the main reasons why people don’t accomplish their dreams in life is a lack of understanding of their hidden fears and motivations.
What are our hidden fears and motivations? They’re the unconscious part of us that we don’t want to look at. Instead, we push them far from our conscious, in hopes that they won’t rear their ugly head. But the further we run from them, the more they dominate our lives. Hidden issues can be fear, running from/not wanting to face pain, not dealing with triggers, being bound by addictions, being depressed or unmotivated, and feeling hopeless (among other things).
It was for FREEDOM that Christ sets us free--but we can still feel stuck or bound by unhealthy and painful thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Those things inhibit our ability to lead full and free lives!
I am a certified life coach, specializing in helping people discover and break free from our hidden motivations and live whole, free, and fulfilled lives. Together, we’ll dive deeper into an understanding of your root issues and ask Jesus to help us discover all the ways he wants to truly transform you.
When I’m not coaching clients, I am toting my 4 kids to ballet and softball practice and being the proud wife of Ken.